Is Happiness Real?

I always wonder could a human really reach true happiness. I once believed that I reached true happiness but I fell flat on my face.... Well not really it was just temporary. I believe true happiness comes within yourself, so does that mean that I am standing in the way of my own true happiness? I know we humans are not perfect and we make mistakes but do we really learn from them? I often find myself making the same mistakes in relationship with men...family...friends and just life! I'm pretty sure soon I will be making the same with raising my son and I pray that these are not critical mistakes. I also find myself making the same financial mistakes.... Defaults...repos...closed accounts...etc. I thought mistakes were for us to learn from but why can't we learn from our neighbor mistakes so we don't have to through the same trail as they once went through? I guess that's a question that I myself will never learn:(. But I will tell you this I will work on finding my true happiness and I will work on learning my mistakes. And how will I do all this might u ask by always knowing where I came from and knowing where I'm going, by telling my testimony to hopeless other, and by keeping God and Family first! How will you work on finding your true happiness and learning from your mistakes?

You R Sum1 Special,
 
Sistah Sizoul!

Men & The Lies they Tale!

Many Sistas belive that all men are liars and dogs. This Is not true! There are a few good guys out there. It's up to you my sistas to chose these good guys from these liars and dogs. Most Men lie and cheat because U ALLOW THEM TO! Listen when I tell u if u instill it early in the relationship that u do not accept lying and cheating in your relationship! They will know what they are getting themselves into. Most women are more scared of the thought of being alone than being in an abusive relationship, whether it's physically, emotionally and/or mentally. Many young sistas aren't aware of the multiple types of abusive relationships you can be in. LISTEN: Know when it's time to let it go! If you done all you can and he's not playing his part LET IT GO! And Just because I say sistas and Dogs does not mean that the role of the wrong-doing is always the guys (So I don't want anyone thinking Sistah Sizoul is bias or sexist in any way) Women and Men both cheat! Men and Women both Lie! And Both Men and Women both deserve better! So Back to not allowing your significant to cheat from the get go! Let them know what you expect in a relationship! Ask them to atleast have enough respect for you to break things off before the do their dirty deed. And I know it is gonna hurt but trust and believe that u deserve it! If you don't know what you deserve how do you expect others to know what you deserve. U have to Love U the best u can in order to let someone to truly love you for you. And that goes back to the title of my Blog! Y Knot B U 4 U! I myself have been in relationship where I have been Mistreated because I didn't know what I deserve. Knowing what you deserve does not come overnight... it does not come in a single relationship....Its comes from doing some serious Soul Searching. And I have been lucky to be able to find this. Some go a lifetime trying to find their worth...and some die searchin! I Promised myself I would not be one of these people I would find my worth so the next guy I allow in my life will be worth my time and energy! Cause it ain't nothing like being in a tired relationship( But thats another topic for another day :)) So know your worth and it will save u alot of headache and unnecessary bullshit that people have to offer!

You R Sum1 Special,

Sistah Sizoul!

Welcome!

Welcome, I am Sistah Sizoul I am new to this Blogging thing but I'm pretty sure we will all be very familiar real Soon. Y Knot B U 4 U is a site for the real people! Not for people who is interested in the usual gossip, But those who actually have real shit going on in their lives. Whether you gay...single parent....lost teenager...insecure whatever you might be going through in your life Sistah Sizoul is here 4 u! If you need some1 to speak with Sistah Sizoul is just a mailbox away. I will be here to answer any questions at yknotu4u@gmail.com....Periodically I will be posting topics that I find interesting and please feel free to comment on any posting. I ask is that you keep it Real! Well That's all 4 now.

You R Sum1 Special,

Sistah Sizoul!