Men & The Lies they Tale!

Many Sistas belive that all men are liars and dogs. This Is not true! There are a few good guys out there. It's up to you my sistas to chose these good guys from these liars and dogs. Most Men lie and cheat because U ALLOW THEM TO! Listen when I tell u if u instill it early in the relationship that u do not accept lying and cheating in your relationship! They will know what they are getting themselves into. Most women are more scared of the thought of being alone than being in an abusive relationship, whether it's physically, emotionally and/or mentally. Many young sistas aren't aware of the multiple types of abusive relationships you can be in. LISTEN: Know when it's time to let it go! If you done all you can and he's not playing his part LET IT GO! And Just because I say sistas and Dogs does not mean that the role of the wrong-doing is always the guys (So I don't want anyone thinking Sistah Sizoul is bias or sexist in any way) Women and Men both cheat! Men and Women both Lie! And Both Men and Women both deserve better! So Back to not allowing your significant to cheat from the get go! Let them know what you expect in a relationship! Ask them to atleast have enough respect for you to break things off before the do their dirty deed. And I know it is gonna hurt but trust and believe that u deserve it! If you don't know what you deserve how do you expect others to know what you deserve. U have to Love U the best u can in order to let someone to truly love you for you. And that goes back to the title of my Blog! Y Knot B U 4 U! I myself have been in relationship where I have been Mistreated because I didn't know what I deserve. Knowing what you deserve does not come overnight... it does not come in a single relationship....Its comes from doing some serious Soul Searching. And I have been lucky to be able to find this. Some go a lifetime trying to find their worth...and some die searchin! I Promised myself I would not be one of these people I would find my worth so the next guy I allow in my life will be worth my time and energy! Cause it ain't nothing like being in a tired relationship( But thats another topic for another day :)) So know your worth and it will save u alot of headache and unnecessary bullshit that people have to offer!

You R Sum1 Special,

Sistah Sizoul!